Sold the 195!
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Had a few bad years myself and sold toys and equipment to make it through. It always picks back up.
After 10 years of Marriage , my wife asked for a divorce. I took it very hard. I have been making changes to my life and decluttering all aspects of my life. I have my health, my Faith, and my son and those are my priorities now.
If I ever need the tractor, I can borrow it , at least.
If I ever need the tractor, I can borrow it , at least.
It's always been there for me, but I'm a mod. May only be available for you for the first 24 hours. Not sure.
Sorry to hear of the divorce, always a hard time. I just gave up after my last one!
It's a rough time but keep your head up and find your way through.
I remember going through mine and feeling so lost. Talked to a guy one day at work and he told me I'd be happier after it was all settled and I adjusted to my new life. Didnt believe him at the time but he was right!
I remember going through mine and feeling so lost. Talked to a guy one day at work and he told me I'd be happier after it was all settled and I adjusted to my new life. Didnt believe him at the time but he was right!
Divorce can sure be devastating, no doubt. Took me a long time to get over my 1st, and was so bad off I rebounded into an even worse situation (if that's possible). Teresa and I have been married going on 26 years. If I lost her I might not make it through it. Hoping and praying you recover soon Tom, as it is a terrible time to go through.
Matt is doing well with it. He's adjusted to the new arrangement . I see him every Tuesday , Thursday and very other weekend. As well as very weekend for church and church related activities.
He lives with her about 5 miles away from me. It was the idea of being married that she abandoned.
The hardest part was the uncertainty of where I was going to live when it was all over. And more of where I could afford to live that worried me. We worked out an extended payment plan so I could afford to live in the house and have one stable thing left. I'm not sure how many of you guys remember but 2 years ago we moved from the area I spent 47 years of my life to start over up here. I haven't been here long enough to develop the support group I had there. The people at church are just getting to know me and are supportive, but just not the same as having people/family that I've known most of my life to lean on.
I will be fine but it's made me change my perspective on everything and how I'm going to spend the rest of my new life!
Sorry to hear about the situation you’re stuck with
Take it one day at a time, it gets better.
Take it one day at a time, it gets better.
I hope that this isn't inappropriate under the circumstances but I have known people to get divorced, sell some valuable cars, tools, tractors and such for $1 so that the"half" that they had to give the ex amounted to 50 cents, then buy it back after the dust settled for the original $1.
Fortunately I have not ever had to go through any of that, still married to my 1st wife coming up on 28 years.
Fortunately I have not ever had to go through any of that, still married to my 1st wife coming up on 28 years.
If you get caught doing that you'll do jail time. When I started my divorce my lawyer told me to sell nothing, buy nothing! He said I don't care if its a 100 dollar car sold for scrap. If its sold, and she can prove it then you will have to pay her the amount of what the court valued that asset at.
Now I believe you could sell off some assets that your wife "didn't know the value of or details" I could sell off guns and such and my wife would never know.